For the question you only ask once. Write it once, get a link, send it wherever you already talk.
Create your propose link →The hardest part of asking someone out is rarely the words. It is saying them in real time, watching their face while they decide, and having to fill the silence.
A link removes that pressure from both sides. You get to write it properly instead of improvising, and they get to answer without having to perform a reaction on the spot. That tends to produce a more honest answer than the doorway conversation does.
Three things do most of the work:
Avoid anything that reads as a countdown or an ultimatum. Pressure gets you compliance or silence, not interest.
Each design has its own cover, type and opening animation. Every one is free.
You also set the question they answer — the default is “Will you go out with me?”.
Envelope, curtain, confetti, or no animation at all.
They answer, and you get a private page showing what they picked.
You write the question and a short message, and get a link. They open it, tap yes or no, and can add a note. You see the answer on a private page.
Only if you choose. You decide what goes in the sender field, though an answer is more likely if they know who is asking.
You see the answer privately. Nothing is posted anywhere and nobody else is notified.
Yes, with no paid tier and nothing locked.
You can create as many links as you like, but sending repeatedly to the same person reads as pressure. One is usually the right number.